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What counts most with Meryl Streep?
You can count on the same thing in Toastmasters
By Dr. Frances Jordan Stein, DTM
On Academy Awards night, February 26, 2012, Meryl Streep accepted her third Oscar, for her role in The Iron Lady. She said “The thing that counts the most for me is the friendships and the love…the old friends and the new friends…and the sheer joy we have shared working together.”
Yes, Meryl, I have the same feeling about Toastmasters. Working with my fellow Toastmasters, sharing tasks together, we are greater than any of us apart. In gratitude, I marvel: Where else could we benefit from the self- development that comes from “stage time,” without the team effort giving us an audience who listens and applauds, an evaluator who provides feedback, a timer who measures and keeps us concise, a teller who collects and counts award votes, a grammarian who comments on language usage, an ah-counter who tracks word fillers, a Sgt. at Arms who creates the room environment and manages supplies, a Toastmaster who conducts the show, a VP of Education who administrates the logistics of role assignments for manual exercises, and a core of generous individuals willing to serve as our officers and lead us on our educational journey.
The list of valued friendships gets fuller, as we extend our activity beyond our club, serving as Area Governors, Division Governors, District Chairs and Officers, contest volunteers, participants in the Leadership and Communication Education (LACE) training, and attendees at Spring and Fall District Conferences.
A favorite camaraderie bonus of Toastmasters is the Constructive Hanging Around Time (CHAT) that takes place following Toastmaster events. It involves fellow Toastmasters who are eager to hang out after working together in meetings, contests, trainings, workshops, new club demos, and conferences. Way beyond public speaking and leadership is the worthwhile experience of brainstorming, sharing ideas and getting to know each other while breaking bread together and feeling that warm sense of wellbeing that comes from fellowship.
There is a German word that describes what happens during CHAT. It is called “gemutlichkeit,” and it refers to warm cordiality and congeniality.
Meryl Streep calls it “the sheer joy we share working together.” Thank you, Meryl, for saying it so simply and clearly. It is what counts most with me in Toastmasters: the friendships and love and the sheer joy we share working together.
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Standing, from left to right, Jack Schmidt, Chris Gregory, Wendy Lam Tran, Art Lim, Eleni Christianson, Norm Stein, Christine Lee. Seated in front, Frannie Jordan Stein, KimChi Nghe
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